I'm trying to create a diagram for the countable direct limit in algebra. The following code
$$\vspace{-1mm}\xymatrix{
&&& A\ar@{-->}[dd]^{\exists!\alpha}\\
A_1\ar[r]^{\!\!\!\alpha_{1,2}} \ar@/^12pt/[urrr]|-{\alpha_{1}} \ar@/_12pt/[drrr]|-{\alpha'_{1}}&
A_2\ar[r]^{\!\!\!\alpha_{2,3}} \ar[urr ]|-{\alpha_{2}} \ar[drr ]|-{\alpha'_{2}}&
A_3\ar[r]^{\!\!\!\alpha_{3,4}} \ar[ur ]|-{\alpha_{3}} \ar[dr ]|-{\alpha'_{3}}&
\ldots\\
&&& A'\\}$$
produces the diagram below:

Questions:
How can I make the arrows
\alpha_1,\alpha_2,\alpha_3arrive at their destination A?How to put labels
\alpha_{1,2}lower (closer to their arrow)?How to move objects A and A' a bit to the right (along with \alpha_i,\alpha'_i) so that the arrow \alpha doesn't intersect
\ldotsand remains straight?When I bend arrows (using PDFtex) I a get rasterized arrow. How can I bend arrows and still have vector graphics?
What is wrong with
\alpha'_3?


