Here is a brief mockup of a possible switch to the article document class. A comparison to what your MWE compiled under the proc document class is also provided.
\documentclass[10pt]{article}
\usepackage{lipsum}% http://ctan.org/pkg/lipsum
\usepackage{calc}% http://ctan.org/pkg/calc
\usepackage[
letterpaper,%
textheight={47\baselineskip+\topskip},%
textwidth={\paperwidth-126pt},%
footskip=75pt,%
marginparwidth=0pt,%
top={\topskip+0.75in}]{geometry}% http://ctan.org/pkg/geometry
\usepackage{fancyhdr}% http://ctan.org/pkg/fancyhdr
\pagestyle{fancy}
\fancyhead{} \fancyfoot{}% Clear header & footer
\fancyhead[C]{my header}% Set centered header
\fancyfoot[C]{\thepage}% Set centered footer
\renewcommand{\headrulewidth}{0.5pt}% Add header rule
% Titling
\title{ bla bla bla }% Your title
\author{ me }% Your author
\date{ \today }% Your date
\makeatletter
% Definition of proc.cls' \maketitle:
\def\@maketitle{%
\vbox to 2.25in{%
\hsize\textwidth
\linewidth\hsize
\vfil
\centering
{\LARGE \@title \par}
\vskip 2em
{\large \begin{tabular}[t]{c}\@author \end{tabular}\par}
\vfil}}
\makeatother
\begin{document}
\maketitle % Produce title
\thispagestyle{fancy}% Override titling page style with fancy
\lipsum[1-10]% Your document text
\end{document}

The layout is not 100% perfect in comparison with your original MWE, but I'm not sure how close you want to have them match. Some of the length choices were based on scanning proc.cls. You mentioned the spacing around the title. I copied the \@maketitle macro from proc and used it as-is in my MWE to produce the exact same spacing around the title. The only difference seems to be in the margins, which can be adjusted as needed via geometry's easy-to-use interface.
Additional packages included are: calc for infix length arithmetic, lipsum for dummy text creates (Lorem Ipsum style), geometry for page layout (margins, stock, text area, ...) formatting.
procdocumentclass calls\PassOptionsToClass{twocolumn}{article}, forcing it to be typeset intwocolumnmode. A better question, based on @lockstep's answer is, why don't you just use a regular (say)articledocument class and specify your margins usinggeometry? – Werner Nov 1 '11 at 19:16twocolumnclass option. – lockstep Nov 6 '11 at 15:40