There is no need for larger parentheses in such expressions. Only a few strategically placed \, will give room and make the expression perfectly readable.
The places to look out for are the ends of radicals. If they are next to another "ordinary" object (not a relation or operation symbol), it's usually correct to insert the thin space \,. For instance, notice the difference in
\sqrt{2}\,x \quad x\sqrt{2}

What about parentheses? Larger ones are not needed, in general; compare
(\sqrt{2}\,)^{2} \quad \bigl(\sqrt{2}\,\bigr)^{2}

The left one is perfectly readable, while the one on the right has the exponent too high and the vinculum clashes with the parenthesis even with the thin space. Here is the version with \left and \right, which is clearly wrong:
\left(\sqrt{2}\,\right)^{2}
gives

and this should be enough to discard it. Use \left and \right only when really needed.
Your mathematical reasoning can be typeset with the help of the align* environment:
\begin{align*}
(\sqrt{2}+\sqrt{3}\,)^{2}
&=(\sqrt{2}\,)^{2}+2\sqrt{2}\,\sqrt{3}+(\sqrt{3}\,)^{2}\\
&=2+2\sqrt{6}+3\\
&=5+2\sqrt{6}
\end{align*}
Notice that there's no \, after \sqrt{6} in the second line, because it precedes a binary operation.
