Two things are required to get Lionel's node to work like the other circuit components: You need to declare the symbol using circuit declare symbol=<name>, set <name> graphic={shape=<shape name>, draw, transform shape,...}, and you need to construct the shape around the local origin.
Here's one way of doing this (note that I used the circle ee shape as the basis for the new symbol, because it already defines the input and output anchors.

\documentclass{standalone}
\usepackage{tikz}
\usetikzlibrary{circuits, shapes.gates.ee}
\begin{document}
\makeatletter
\pgfdeclareshape{neon lamp shape}
{
\inheritsavedanchors[from=circle ee]
\inheritanchor[from=circle ee]{center}
\inheritanchor[from=circle ee]{north}
\inheritanchor[from=circle ee]{south}
\inheritanchor[from=circle ee]{east}
\inheritanchor[from=circle ee]{west}
\inheritanchor[from=circle ee]{north east}
\inheritanchor[from=circle ee]{north west}
\inheritanchor[from=circle ee]{south east}
\inheritanchor[from=circle ee]{south west}
\inheritanchor[from=circle ee]{input}
\inheritanchor[from=circle ee]{output}
\inheritanchorborder[from=circle ee]
\backgroundpath{
\pgf@process{\radius}
\pgfutil@tempdima=\radius
\pgfpathcircle{\centerpoint}{\pgfutil@tempdima}
\pgfpathmoveto{\pgfpoint{-\pgfutil@tempdima}{0pt}}
\pgfpathlineto{\pgfpoint{-0.2\pgfutil@tempdima}{0pt}}
\pgfpathmoveto{\pgfpoint{-0.2\pgfutil@tempdima}{0.7\pgfutil@tempdima}}
\pgfpathlineto{\pgfpoint{-0.2\pgfutil@tempdima}{-0.7\pgfutil@tempdima}}
\pgfpathmoveto{\pgfpoint{\pgfutil@tempdima}{0pt}}
\pgfpathlineto{\pgfpoint{0.2\pgfutil@tempdima}{0pt}}
\pgfpathmoveto{\pgfpoint{0.2\pgfutil@tempdima}{0.7\pgfutil@tempdima}}
\pgfpathlineto{\pgfpoint{0.2\pgfutil@tempdima}{-0.7\pgfutil@tempdima}}
\pgfusepath{stroke}
\pgfpathcircle{\pgfqpoint{-0.4\pgfutil@tempdima}{-0.55\pgfutil@tempdima}}{.075\pgfutil@tempdima}
\pgfusepath{fill}
}
}
\makeatother
\begin{tikzpicture}[
circuit,
circuit declare symbol=neon lamp,
set neon lamp graphic={shape=neon lamp shape, draw, minimum size=1cm,transform shape}
]
\draw (0,0) to [neon lamp] (2,1);
\end{tikzpicture}
\end{document}
circuitikz, but I'm not sure it contains any gas discharge tube... – Count Zero Feb 21 at 17:07