\begin{pmatrix}
m_{1+}\hat{p}_{1H}\hat{q}_{1H} & \multicolumn{2}{c}{\text{\kern0.5em\smash{\raisebox{-1ex}{\Large 0}}}} & \multicolumn{1}{|c}{m_{12}\hat{p}_{1H}\hat{q}_{1H}} \\
& \ddots & &\multicolumn{1}{|c}{\vdots}\\
\multicolumn{2}{c}{\text{\kern-0.5em\smash{\raisebox{0.75ex}{\Large 0}}}} & m_{I+}\hat{p}_{IH}\hat{q}_{IH} & \multicolumn{1}{|c}{m_{I2}\hat{p}_{IH}\hat{q}_{IH}} \\
\cline{1-5} \\ m_{12}\hat{p}_{1H}\hat{q}_{1H} & \hdots & m_{I2}\hat{p}_{IH}\hat{q}_{IH} & \multicolumn{1}{|c}{\sum_{i=1}^I m_{i2}\hat{p}_{iH}\hat{q}_{iH}}
\end{pmatrix}
I want this:
I have this: