There are already many answers to this question, but no one seems to have the solution for my case. My table looks, written with the following code, like this:
\documentclass[a4paper,9pt]{extarticle}
\usepackage[a4paper,left=2.4cm,right=1.4cm,top=1.4cm,bottom=1.4cm,footskip=0cm]{geometry}
\usepackage[utf8]{inputenc}
\usepackage[table]{xcolor}
\usepackage{xcolor}
\definecolor{row_even}{cmyk}{0, 0, 0, 0.12} % define color
\definecolor{row_uneven}{cmyk}{0, 0, 0, 0.24} % define color
\usepackage{helvet} % Helvetica font
\renewcommand{\familydefault}{\sfdefault}
\usepackage{fancyhdr} % page numbering
\renewcommand{\headrulewidth}{0pt} % remove top line
\usepackage{colortbl}
\usepackage{float} % define table lines
\makeatletter
\newcommand{\thickhline}{\noalign {\hrule height 2pt}}
\newcolumntype{'}{!{\color{white}\vrule width 2pt}}
\newcolumntype{+}{!{\vrule width 0.2em}}
\makeatother
\usepackage{tabularx}
\newcolumntype{L}[1]{>{\hsize=#1\hsize\raggedright\arraybackslash}X}%
\newcolumntype{R}[1]{>{\hsize=#1\hsize\raggedleft\arraybackslash}X}%
\newcolumntype{C}[2]{>{\hsize=#1\hsize\columncolor{#2}\centering\arraybackslash}X}
\newcolumntype{S}{>{\hsize=0pt}X}
\usepackage{array}
\usepackage{ctable} % different line thickness
\usepackage{multirow} % cell over multiple rows in table
\begin{document}
\renewcommand{\tabularxcolumn}[1]{>{\arraybackslash}m{#1}}
\begin{center}
\rowcolors{1}{row_uneven}{row_even}
\begin{tabularx}{\textwidth}{ + L{0.7} ' C{0.15}{row_uneven} ' C{0.15}{row_uneven} + }
\specialrule{.05em}{1em}{0em}
Swahili & yes & no \\[0.3cm]
Swedish & & \\[0.3cm]
Dutch & & \\[0.3cm]
English & & \\[0.3cm]
German & & \\[0.3cm]
\specialrule{.2em}{.0em}{.0em}
\multicolumn{3}{+ l +}{\textbf{further languages:}} \\[0.8cm]
\specialrule{.2em}{.0em}{.0em}
\end{tabularx}
\end{center}
\end{document}
You can see how the first two columns are vertically centred, but not the third one. Also the text within \multicolumn command isn't centred. I know that I could tackle to problem with the 3rd column by just using a 4th column with zero width. But I have tried that unsuccessfully because the rows are coloured. Could I maybe define my own column type, so that I have to use \begin{tabularx}{\linewidth}{ + X ' X ' X + }
? But how would I do that?