Here is one solution using the memoir
toc code inserts:
\documentclass[a4paper]{memoir}
% sample data
\newcounter{dlf}
\newcommand\test{%
\stepcounter{dlf}
\chapter{Test chapter \thedlf}
\section{test section \thedlf}}
\cftinsertcode{preapp}{\setcounter{tocdepth}{-10}}
\newcommand\apptoc{
\begingroup
\cftinsertcode{prenorm}{\setcounter{tocdepth}{-10}}
\cftinsertcode{preapp}{\setcounter{tocdepth}{3}}
\renewcommand\contentsname{List of appendencies}
\tableofcontents*
\endgroup
}
\begin{document}
\cftinserthook{toc}{prenorm}
\tableofcontents*
\test\test\test
\appendix
\appendixpage
\cftinserthook{toc}{preapp}
\apptoc
\test\test\test
\end{document}