Relative size of symbols [closed]

Question

This is perhaps a typography question rather than a LaTeX one. I'm using playing card symbols from Book Antiqua and the heart symbol feels too big to me (subjective, I know). So I rescale it and that looks OK in the first text line of the MWE.

But then I use the symbols again when they are very close together and the sizes look wrong to my eye. What I think is happening is that the relatively large numbers and brackets change the size perception.

I could make the brackets smaller but I wonder how other people would address this issue. Or if they even see it as an issue :-)

MWE:

\documentclass[a4paper, 11pt, oneside]{memoir}

\usepackage{fontspec}
\usepackage[HTML, hyperref, x11names]{xcolor}

\usepackage{relsize}

\defaultfontfeatures{Scale=MatchUppercase}
\newfontface{\BCards}{Book Antiqua}

\NewDocumentCommand{\BCs}{}{{\BCards\char"2663}}
\NewDocumentCommand{\BDs}{}{{\color{red}\BCards\char"2666}}
\NewDocumentCommand{\BHs}{}{{\relscale{0.9}\color{red}\BCards\char"2665}}
\NewDocumentCommand{\BSs}{}{{\BCards\char"2660}}


\begin{document}


In sequence 1\BCs{}--1\BDs{}--1\BHs{}--1\BSs{}


\begin{tabular}{@{} *{3}{l}}
2NT     &                       &\\
        &Pass                   &0--4 HL ;\\
        &3\BCs{}                &4+ HL, Stayman Puppet ;\\
        &3\BDs{}(\BHs{})        &4+ HL, Texas M ;\\
        &3\BSs{}(4\BCs{})       &4+ HL, Texas m ;\\
        &4\BHs{}(\BSs{})        &9+ HL, two suiter ;\\
\end{tabular}

\end{document}