I've included a package in my tex file which requires a download from CTAN, so it's freely available just not in the default tex install.
I'm distributing my tex file, and would either like pdftex to fail silently on the missing package (or log a message explaining that the pdf "looks best with inclusion of blah"), or find a way to ship the tex file with the special sty's. What's the appropriate and conventional way to go about this?